Monday, March 22, 2010

big lessons in little people

This year, I’ve spent Sunday evenings on the yellow line with a Sparkie. In a hit-and-run fashion twenty-five minutes a week, we have formed a relationship. Both of us are strong willed and have our opinions. To say my patience hasn’t been tried would be a lie, and I think she would say the same of hers. This year, I may have been her leader, but this year, she has been my teacher. She’s taught me it’s okay to see someone you love across the crowded church patio and wave exuberantly while calling out their name. She’s taught me that girlfriends are meant to be hugged if you’re standing next to them. She’s taught me that a yes means yes, and a no means no…and it’s okay to say so. She’s taught me that sometimes things aren’t as they seem, and patient understanding can open the door to trust and growth. She’s taught me that with support and baby steps, we can accomplish big things. I pray my little friend will always run to win the prize. As she learns to bend her will to the Father’s, I pray it will remain strong in His hands. And I thank God for big lessons in little people.